Why This Exists

What if grief isn't an ending, but a transformation? Rooted in trauma expertise and quantum curiosity, this space explores how love, loss, and the universe intersect.

Grief is often spoken about in stages or timelines, but what if grief isn’t linear? What if it exists in multiple states at once—both present and absent, both real and surreal, both bearable and unbearable?

I created QuantumGrief.org to explore a different way of understanding loss—one that recognizes grief as a dynamic, shifting state of being rather than something to “move on” from. Inspired by physics, neuroscience, and personal experience, Quantum Grief Theory offers a way to name and observe what we feel when we are caught between holding on and letting go.

Why I Started This Blog

In the span of a few years, I lost my nephew, niece, father, uncle, and a second nephew, and grief didn’t feel like something I could just process and be done with. It felt like a paradox, a state of being suspended between worlds, between what was and what is.

I turned to physics for answers.

That’s when I saw it—grief behaves like Schrödinger’s Cat, like a wavefunction that won’t collapse until it’s observed. It doesn’t vanish. It shifts. It encodes itself in us. It radiates out into our lives in ways we don’t always recognize.

What You’ll Find Here

This blog is an exploration of:
✔ Quantum Grief Theory—a new model for understanding loss through physics, the nervous system, and storytelling.
✔ How grief manifests in the body—examining survival states like fight, flight, freeze, submit, and attach/cry.
✔ How grief transforms over time—moving from a paradox to something encoded within us.
✔ Poetry and personal reflection—ways to observe and collapse grief into something we can hold.

Who This is For

If you have ever felt like grief is both here and not here, both past and present, both something you carry and something you cannot hold—this space is for you.

Join the Conversation

Grief isn’t something we fix. It’s something we witness. Let’s observe it together.

📖 Start reading the first post here.